Speak to or speak with

[etc128]

May I know the correct English should be "speak to" or "speak with"?

Which of these are correct, "May I speak to James?" or "May I speak with James?", "James is speaking to Mary." or "James is speaking with Mary."

Thank you.

 

[Skrej]

They are all correct and acceptable. It doesn't make any difference which one you use.

Edit: Upon reflection, I guess 'with' may be slightly more formal.

 

[Fredenglish]

I'm not a teacher, but it should serve these purposes: 1. Emphasis (as to WHOM you spoke to) 2. Politer way 3. Formal way

Examples:

"Can I speak with you for a minute?"
"I need to speak to John about the matter."

Therefore:

"May I speak to James?"
"James is speaking with Mary."

I hope this helped

 

[bubbha]

In my opinion, "speak with" is more polite, because it suggests two-way conversation. "speak to" sounds a little more one way. But in practice, they're both commonly used and the latter is rarely considered less appropriate.

 

[emsr2d2]

I can honestly say that I don't think I ever use "speak/talk with".

I spoke to my mum yesterday.
Did you talk to John last week?
Can I speak to James please?
Who were you talking to when I saw you outside the office?