alan said:
i dont know whether he likes flowers - direct without or not
i asked him whether he had done all the work himself or not
indirect with or not
it seems that we can add or not in any cases...??!
i really dont understand.
Hi Alan,
Sorry for not getting back to you sooner. The message slipped to a different screen and I forgot to go back to look for it.
OK. A little explanation to straighten things out.
I said "Each "whether" demands "or not" to follow. I should have given you a few examples to show what I meant by it.
Ex.
Whether you like my wedding dress
or not, I am buying it!
The new insurance policy for class 5 drivers will go up
whether you have had any accidents
or not.
At times, "whether" alone is enough. In such sentences "or not" is unessential though it cannot hurt. This is the case of indirect questions ( indirect speech).
Your sentence:
" I don't know whether he likes flowers" is just a statement. It's not a question.
A: I don't know whether he likes flowers".
in reported speech the sentence would be:
B: "She said she didn't know whether he liked flowers".
As for other examples, I guess just common sense will tell you whether you really need to insert "or not" in your sentence or whether you can skip it altogether. If you feel the same thought can be clearly conveyed by "whether" alone, just stay with "whether" only.