It's rather than. I'd say rather than us paying you, but I don't know whether that would gain critical readers' approval. You can avoid the issue by saying our paying you.
The second sentence is grammatically OK. It just doesn't make sense.
It's rather than. I'd say rather than us paying you, but I don't know whether that would gain critical readers' approval. You can avoid the issue by saying our paying you.
The second sentence is grammatically OK. It just doesn't make sense.
Are you really sure, tufguy, that it's "Tom" in your second sentence?
You should be paying us rather that our paying you.
The final pronoun is right, but you didn't correct another error I mentioned: you have to say rather than.