Had better

[Teia]

Originally Posted by Tdol

Yes, it is used; it can convey more force than 'shouldn't'.

Hi Richard


I think I understand the real meaning of had better vs. should not now that I have done some research on it. Had better has a more compulsory or coercive characteristic.

Thank you very much.

[allawy70]

Do we have to use "better had"? and what difference will it make if we don't

[aggelos]

Had better + bare infinitive means you should do something because, if you don't, the consequences will probably be rather bad for you (as in the case of your girlfriend possibly leaving you). The expression (often contracted to 'd better) is grammatically incorrect without had (or 'd), although many people think that you better, for example, is correct; they just miss the (hardly audible) 'd.

And I think Isra meant I had better leave, not live, right?

[RonBee]

Originally Posted by aggelos

And I think Isra meant I had better leave, not live, right?

Offhand, I'd say yes. Emphatically so.

[Wuisi]

Useful when it comes to giving advice -you are not comparing something to something else, so forget about the 'better'. Always the same form and followed by bare infinitive. In spite of 'had' you are not talking about the past or referring to a past situation, the meaning is present (or near future).I'd better put an end to this. (by the way, do not let 'd rather' lead you astray, this is preference).

[zeus]

Hi Friends,
In meaning, had better is close to ''should/ ought to'' but ''had better'' is usually stronger.Often had better implies a warning or a threat of possible bad consequences.
You had better not do it = If you do it, there will be a bad result.

[gabber]

"had better" is a modal idiom that means "should."

[gabber]

"had better" is a modal idiom. Since it's modal, it does not take "to" before a following infinitive.
"You'd better BE quiet." is good English.
"You'd better TO BE quiet" is not English.

BTW: "had better" means "should."

[Mr.Vu]

Originally Posted by gabber

"had better" is a modal idiom. Since it's modal, it does not take "to" before a following infinitive.
"You'd better BE quiet." is good English.
"You'd better TO BE quiet" is not English.

BTW: "had better" means "should."

"You'd better TO BE quiet" is still English, just wrong grammar.

[phatyma]

i think,HAD BETTER is used for those actions, which are good to take in any particullar situations
eg:
we had better read these structions before we start cooking.
it means.
it would be good, if we read the structions first.