Re: "for me to know for you to find out " ? She wants to keep it a secret -- she's saying, "This knowledge is something that I am allowed to know, but you must find out for yourself".
It's an unusual construction with the verb "know", which is why it's confusing. She is implying that this is the way it was intended to be. This idiom is often used when people don't want to answer some personal question. |