MikeNewYork
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One thing that has been missed in this discussion is that the convention of using "had better" or "had better not" carries with it a threat of violence or other negative consequences if the person is to not heed the advice given. NEVER use this convention when simply offering friendly advice, especially when speaking with Americans.
I disagree, particluarly about the "violence" part. This is nothing more than a strong suggestion. There may be negative consequences, but that is why the suggestion is strong.
If you need to be home by midnight, you'd better leave now.
We'd beter leave now if we hope to beat the storm.