[General] Difference between "I'm ok about sth" and "I'm ok with sth"

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kasamb

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Hello,

What's the difference between "I'm ok with sth" and "I'm ok about sth"? When do you use each of them?
For example, what would you use for:

-"I'm ok ... taking my lumps"
-"I'm ok ... you"
-"I'm ok ... this plan"

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In American English, we normally use "with" in this informal idiom. Don't use this idiom in formal writing.
 

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Same in BrE. I'm intrigued as to what lumps someone is taking in sentence 1!
 

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kasamb, please write OK or okay instead of ok, and something instead of sth.
 

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What do you mean?

Your first example sentence is "I'm OK with you taking my lumps". I have no idea what that means.
 

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OK, I have never heard that in my life. However, you seem to have misused it. It refers to someone accepting a punishment themselves, not someone else taking the punishment for them.

"I'm OK with taking my lumps" would work, meaning "I'm happy to accept my punishment".
 

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Maybe "taking one's lumps" is an American expression. It's quite common over here anyway. I agree that it would be odd to take someone else's lumps.
 

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kasamb, I see that you asked the same question here.

Please note our view on this practice:

We recommend posting a question on one forum only initially. If you do not get a satisfactory answer from that forum and you feel that you have exhausted its possibilities, then of course trying a different forum might help. It is only courteous however, to tell the second forum that you have already asked the question on another forum and then give a precis of the answers you received there, along with an explanation of why you are now looking elsewhere.
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(You will have noticed that you have received more and better answers on this forum.)
 
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