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Is this correct:

1) Who else have you been talking to that I don't know about? My own lawyer?

Obviously, I know my lawyer and I know about him. But I don't know that you've been talking to her or him.
 

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It's possible. It depends on context.
 

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@navi tasan
Perhaps:

Who have you been talking to ______ ___ _____? Have you you talking to my lawyer?

What goes in the blanks?
 

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Thank you all very much,

'Without me knowing about it'? 'Without telling me'?
Or, 'that I don't know of'?
Or, 'that I don't know about'?
 

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"That I don't know of" strikes ne as unnatural in that context.
 

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@navi tasan Have you figured out the answer to the question in post #4?
 

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Thank you very much, Probus, and Tarheel,

I wrote all the solutions I could come up with in post #5.


'Without me knowing about it'?
'Without telling me'?
Or, 'that I don't know of'?
Or, 'that I don't know about'?

Probus said that 'I don't know of' is unnatural in that context.
 

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Who have you been talking to behind my back?

@navi tasan Your answers are good too except for one. (It's a close call.)
 
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I see no reason for "that/who I don't know about/of?" or anything similar. The fact that the person is asking "Who have you ..." makes it clear they don't know!

Who else have you been talking to? My lawyer?
 

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"Behind my back" is a very commonly used idiomatic expression that could be substituted for the unnatural "that I don't know about".
 
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