The second makes more sense.
The first refers to affairs, sexual relationships, etc, that could embarrass or harm someone's career, marriage, etc.
I have two meanings of "mess with" and which is correct?(from glee club)Okay, and no one Messes with celebrities or defaces their pictures.one meaning is "make a relationship with someone who can possibly harm you", and the other is "harass or bother"Which is correct? I have no clue.
The second makes more sense.
The first refers to affairs, sexual relationships, etc, that could embarrass or harm someone's career, marriage, etc.
"Mess with"--
--harass, bother, or change