How to Make Love All Night: And Drive a Woman Wild! (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking)

Very good trainning, but as always, don't expect immediate results or a magic receipe to out-perform. Follow the literature, be consistent and get a grip on the method.

I purchased this book as a first edition hardcover in 1996. I do think her writing style is both readable and pleasant. The book will not take long to read, the exercises will take longer to complete, especially working up to the maximum number of daily PC workout reps (when done correctly.)

Ms. Keesling avoids any real New Age thinking though I believe that is her inclination. Some, myself included, find New Age things objectionable.

The methods described in the book do work. You can have an orgasm, stay erect and then have another. I have only done the solo exercises. I am saving myself for marriage yet wish to be prepared to pleasure my future wife. I do the two PC muscles exercises every day. I don't do the longer exercises much since I know they do work. I plan to review them when I marry unless I find that I do not need a refractory period anymore. There are some examples of this occurring in the book.

The book is pretty thorough except in a few spots where it needs more information.

THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT HAPPENS

The big thing Ms. Keesling has not spelled out correctly is what the book is all about. This vital information she may not know as a woman or maybe she thought it would discourage readers. This lack of information does not make the book ineffective just incomplete. You would find this out for yourself if you have success.

The orgasm you are seeking will involve semen being pushed around but not ejaculated out of the body. Instead you will tighten your PC muscle near level 10. This voluntary action will keep the PC muscle from being used to expel the semen out in an involuntary action. The semen will go up into your bladder because the PC muscle is clenched. It does feel different especially as it is passing into the bladder. It is a fulfilling orgasm and is only slightly less pleasurable for not having the PC pumping and the accompanying rush of regular ejaculation. You will be able to keep your erection and can always do nothing to stop the second orgasm from being a normal one.

In sending semen into your bladder and not your penis, the chemical(s) in semen, which cause your penis' blood chambers to contract and empty, don't get a chance to work.

You may have a partial ejaculation with some going in your bladder and some escaping normally. Your sensation interpretation and timing just need work.

I do not believe I have ever had truly 'dry' orgasm. Ejaculate amounts will drop if one has a few non-multiple orgasms in a short time span, but cannot be called 'dry.' Ms. Keesling says that the orgasm you get from her technique is 'dry.' I do not think men can have dry orgasms at will. I would maintain that a full male orgasm requires semen and the glands that produce its ingredients.

Ms. Keesling does not name the position she advocates for the couple's exercises on pages 102-103 and onward in the book and her description of it could be sharper. Ms. Keesling stated in an interview, "It didn't even have a name till a few years ago when Cosmopolitan magazine called it the butterfly position. It's a version of the male superior position, where the woman lies on her back but tilts her pelvis back and puts her legs up and the man kneels in front of her. This position is great for treating sex problems; it's great for both male and female orgasm, and arousal, and erection and about everything you can name."

Ms. Keesling should have included the avoidance of pornography. Your brain and body will be primed before you have primed your lady's. It will lessen your ejaculatory control.

Do the PC exercises but start slowly. You have no means of resistance like women's Kegel dumbbells, so practice over time is what will give you strength and endurance.

I doubt that few if any of the other books mentioned by other reviewers work. If there were "Scientifically Guaranteed ..." methods or nutritional supplements that worked they would be better known. The only thing guaranteed is a lighter wallet.

Practical advice in love making in enhancing the commitment and love felt within. The book provided practical ways to accomplish this.

This is simply a re-hashing of the same tired 4,000 year-old Chinese techniques that authors and sex "experts" have been making money on in countless books worldwide. And while this might be the best option men might currently have over the stereotypical one-orgasm-fits-all alternative, yet this is hardly actual male multiorgasmic response.

These techniques serve only to mimic a female's real multiorgasmic response by forcing the man to abort actual orgasm and all its lovely attendant pleasures for a very limited semi-orgasmic experience minus all the truly pleasureable ejaculatory contractions that are part of the very definition of what orgasm is. Thus, these are not actual orgasms... but instead highly inhibited pseudo-orgasms that deprive men of orgasm's full pleasures while serving only to help him stave off the Male Refractory Period (MRP) so as to help maintain his erection and, thus, his ability to continue sexual activity therewith.

It's time men stopped being duped into believing these techniques actually cause a man to be multiorgasmic and face the reality that it is simply a technique-driven sexual practice that permits men to mimic the true multiorgasmic capacity of females.

When the day finally comes that MRP is fully researched and understood (to date, not a single research study exists on MRP!), and men are finally provided the means to eradicate... if only temporarily... MRP from their sexual response cycle, only then will men finally be able to actually experience True Multiorgasmic Response as to women and begin to understand the exponentially higher pleasure potentials possible.

Until then, men will continue to be forced to either sacrifice their erections for the pleasures of a true orgasm... or sacrifice the full pleasures of true orgasm via the use of techniques that abort orgasm by stopping ejaculation so as to maintain their erections.

I bought this book when I was 49. This book was everything that I had hoped and more. By following the instructions in this book, and exercising, I was able to make love all night long and experience total body orgazisms and keep going. I had girls calling me for dates. I only wish that I had discovered this book when I was younger. Now that my boys are older, I'm buying two more copies for them.