emsr2d2, let`s discard the example given [STRIKE]at[/STRIKE] in the first post. [STRIKE]example.[/STRIKE] Pretend that you know that you lost your earrings last weekend and you don`t know where they [STRIKE]are[/STRIKE] have been since then. [STRIKE]Is[/STRIKE] If your relative comes and inquires about them, you know that they are already gone i.e. absent. Pretend now that you have your earrings in your hand and the phone is ringing. You pick the phone up and converse with someone. When you hang up you notice that the earrings are no longer in your hand and you have no idea where they currently are. So they have disappeared. If a relative asks/asked you about them at that moment, wouldn`t you say that the earrings had disappeared rather than they [STRIKE]are[/STRIKE] had been absent [STRIKE]from[/STRIKE] for a few minutes?
I`m just being theoretical.
In both cases, I'd say "I've lost my earrings" or "I can't find my earrings". I wouldn't use "My earrings are absent" or "My earrings have disappeared"
Why should we discard the example given in the first post? It was a post made by a learner who wants help. We are trying to explain to the OP why those answers don't work. Let's not hijack the thread with other suggestions for a question.
Please see my corrections to your post above, in red. In addition, V.Predoev, you will have noticed that a moderator has added the words "Not a teacher" to your post #2. This is a requirement of the forum rules when one English learner tries to help another. Please edit post #6 and add "Not a teacher" to the top, and then ensure that you add it to the beginning of all your posts (unless you are the person writing post #1 of a new thread). Thank you.