Can we say "May I talk to sb?" on phone?

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Sin-Yu Tsai

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Can we say "May I talk to sb?" on phone?
Or "May I speak to sb?" is the only way to use.
Thank you.
 
I don't know why you can't use either one. There is also:

Let me talk to So and So.

OR

Put So and So on the phone.

OR

Let me talk to So and So for a minute.

I am assuming, of course, that it's an informal conversation and not a business call.
 
'sb' is not an acceptable abbreviation in this forum, Sin-Yu Tsai.
 
'sb' is not an acceptable abbreviation in this forum, Sin-Yu Tsai.
If I call Vivian, can I say "May I talk to Vivian?"when someone answer the phone?
What is the difference between May I talk to Vivian and May I speak to Vivian?
 
If I call Vivian, can I say "May I talk to Vivian?"when someone answer the phone?
What is the difference between May I talk to Vivian and May I speak to Vivian?

I think the latter is more formal and polite.
 
A suitably formal/polite way to say this (for example, in a business situation, or when calling the parents of your girlfriend or boyfriend) would be to say "May I speak with Vivian?"
 
Note that bubbha is a speaker of AmE where "speak with" is commonly used. It's not used that way in BrE. We would ask to "speak/talk to​ Vivian".
 
'sb' is not an acceptable abbreviation in this forum, Sin-Yu Tsai.

It is used in dictionaries, where I presume Sin-Yu Tsai got it from. However, in the forum we do write most words in their full form as it makes life easier for everyone.
 
I also would use to rather than with.
 
I would not consider "talk to" less polite than "speak to". (AmE)
 
I find "with" to imply speech that is more bi-directional and on equal footing. "to", in my opinion, has a little more of a one-directional, higher-status-to-lower-status feel to it.

But in normal, everyday speech, I wouldn't worry about it.

Yes, I'm a speaker of American English.
 
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