When you post something that completely contradicts with something someone said earlier and you receive a lot of likes for it, it certainly makes the other person feels ostracized.
Thank you, Andrew, for your kind and sensitive remarks. What you describe above applies to my experience in a large number of threads at this forum, including the thread in which I participated immediately before this one, where I mentioned "going full bore" as a good alternative to the highly awkward-sounding "living at full blast," about which the questioner had asked. Only the questioner liked the post.
I happen to
know that "going full bore" is an excellent way of putting what the learner was trying to say, but any learner reading that thread would be led to just the opposite view. The following post said simply, "That doesn't work in BE," and was liked by a whole pack of moderators. Later, I proved my point by quoting the
Oxford English Dictionary (OED). That post received zero likes, not even one from the questioner.
I wasn't in the best of spirits after that thread, but decided to continue participating here regardless. As I was on the way out the door (leaving for work) yesterday morning, I quickly glanced at the question queue, and saw this question from Bassim, which hadn't yet been responded to. I knew instantly the point that I would make, regarding the addition of "down." I just needed to verify that Bassim hadn't just omitted it in the title.
Perhaps it's a good time to close the thread, least anyone become more marginalized.
I think you meant to say "lest," Skrej. Obviously, I was overconfident about my command of American English idiom in this particular instance. I was wrong, and this has been totally embarrassing. This thread ruined my day yesterday, quite frankly. I would have never thought to check COCA or any other reference on this question -- I have a whole library of grammar books, plus access to the OED. My experience alone seemed abundantly conclusive. Oh, well!
On the bright side, this has given me a good story to tell.
I don't intend to stop posting here as a result of this. But I would like to move on. Now that you know my philosophy about the liking feature, which applies not only here but on Facebook and YouTube and wherever it is used (at least you don't have a thumbs-down feature!), please forget about it. Don't give me special treatment. I shall simply try to develop thicker skin.
Yes, I just used "shall."