How about you come/coming with me?

[99bottles]

How about you come/coming with me?

I don't know how to handle 'how about' grammar. I found only this thread, which does not seem very helpful...
https://www.englishforums.com/English/HowAboutYouDoDoingSmth/qnhhg/post.htm

 

[probus]

Only two combinations seem natural to me.

How about coming with me?
How about you come with me?

Both may well have sinister connotations.

 

[tedmc]

I do not see anything sinister about a person asking another to come with him/her.

"How about you coming with me?"

This sounds natural enough to me.

 

[99bottles]

So, 'How about coming/you come/you coming...' are all three natural enough?

 

[emsr2d2]

Some people might use "How about you coming with me?" but I find it less natural than the two versions in post #2. I wouldn't say they "may well" have sinister connotations but they could, depending on context.