I only/just/merely look like him

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A: You look just like your father.
B: Well, I only/just/merely look like him, but we're different in character.
(The dialog was made up by me.)

By default, I would use just, but maybe only or merely would sound better since just was used in a different sense by A.
What do you think?

I also have many alternative combinations in mind: It's only/just/merely an apparent/superficial/physical/visual similarity/resemblance.
All combinations sound fine to me, except for the ones with physical/visual. I would more likely choose them if I talked about inanimate objects.

Which combination(s) would you use?
 
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There's no need for an adjective. "But" in the second clause expresses the idea. Say "Well, I look like him, but we're different in character."
 

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"But" in the second clause expresses the idea.

OK, let's remove the last part:

A: You look just like your father.
B(1): Well, I only/just/merely look like him.
B(2): It's only/just/merely an apparent/superficial/physical/visual similarity/resemblance.
 
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The first two adjectives work in B(1) and B(2). "Merely" isn't quite right.
 

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How about: I may look like him, but we are different in character?
 

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You could say it like this.

Yes, but I only look like him.
 

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I wouldn't repeat the "look like him" part.

Jim: You look just like your father.
Bob: I do, but that's where the resemblance ends.
 

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Welcome to the forum, Chadzo.

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A: You look just like your father.
B: Well, I only/just/merely look like him, but we're different in character.
(The dialog was made up by me.)

By default, I would use just, but maybe only or merely would sound better since just was used in a different sense by A.
What do you think?

You're right, just is the best choice. Second-best is only. Merely would sound snooty.


I also have many alternative combinations in mind: It's only/just/merely an apparent/superficial/physical/visual similarity/resemblance.
All combinations sound fine to me, except for the ones with physical/visual.

None of those are natural in conversation. Exept for visual, they might work in writing. But it might seem wordy.


I would more likely choose them if I talked about inanimate objects.

I wouldn't.


Which combination(s) would you use?
As we say in the US: Another county heard from!
 
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There's always more than one way to say the same thing.
:)
 
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