marrying someone who is not

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Untaught88

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Hi,

Marrying someone who is not from your family/caste. What do you call this kind of marriage? Any specific name?
 
You sometimes hear: marrying up, marring down, marrying well.... but we don't have the concept of caste in most places.
 
As far I as I know there is no name for that in this country (USA). What do they call it in Pakistan?
 
In India, you can say "marrying out of one's caste" and "inter-caste marriage".
 
Some people who think this kind of thing is important refer to people marrying someone from another [social] class. I don't know of a word for that kind of marriage.
 
There is a rarely used word - unlikely to be needed by a student) - for when a member of the royal family (I say the because I‘ve never seen this word used outside the UK [although - now I come to think of it - maybe it was used when Prince Rainier of Monaco married the film-star Grace Kely]) marries a commoner (that‘s a noun by the way, meaning "person who doesn‘t have royal blood"). The adjective morganatic applies to the marriage. The royal partner marries morganatically; I‘m not sure the same could be said of the commoner.

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PS I‘ve looked this up: it doesn‘t apply only to royal marriages; it‘s just that I‘ve never met it in any other context.
 
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That article refers to marrying someone within your own direct family (cousins). That practice ranges from a bad idea to a form of incest.

I was slightly confused by the fact that OP used both marrying someone who is not from your family and someone who is not from your caste. As far as I know, they mean completely different things just about everywhere.
 
You will sometimes hear 'marry above/below your station', meaning to marry somebody who is from a different social class than yourself.
 
There is also the phrase "the subaltern marriage" from the French of the 18th C.... but it's certainly uncommon nowadays.
 
Would "a mixed marriage" work in this case?
 
'mixed marriage
Marriage between persons of different races or religions.'── quoted from The Free Dictionary.

That article refers to marrying someone within your own direct family (cousins).
'Inter-' is a prefix that means 'between or involving two or more different things, places, or people' according to Longman, so I wonder why 'inter-family marriage' refers to one's own direct family in the article.
 
Marrying out can be used when people marry outside their religion, so I guess it could be applied here.
 
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