Does this "ball buster" in case of a woman have the same meaning"? Does "bust" mean "destroy or damage"? It sounds really offensive to say "ball destroyer".
Boy friend:Minday looks like hot stuff tonight
Girl friend : You're a real pig. You shouldn't look at other girls.
BF : Don't be a ball buster. I like you better than her.
GF : You are treating me like a half-wit
BF: Come on, Brenda, you're the apple of my eye.