Some people might not like being addressed that way but I've never heard it used to belittle someone. It's just a friendly greeting. I have a friend who uses it with almost everyone he knows, male and female.
The same friend I mentioned in my previous post sometimes tried to use "dudette" for the girls but none of us liked it so he reverted to "dude" for everyone.
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