LQZ
Member
- Joined
- Sep 22, 2009
- Member Type
- Other
- Native Language
- Chinese
- Home Country
- China
- Current Location
- China
Looking at the other person keeps us distracted from our real work in the relationship—ourselves. As the saying goes, "How empty of me to be so full of you." The only person we control is ourself. If we work on that person, the circumstances as we see them usually change on their own. This may mean that the relationship is working.
Dear teacher,
I fail to understand the meaning of the bold part. Could you please explain it to me? Thanks.
LQZ