got in the way

[azz]

a. Tom always got in my way getting what I wanted.
b. Tom always got in my way to get what I wanted.
c. Tom always got in the way getting what I wanted.
d. Tom always got in the way to get what I wanted.

Are the above sentences grammatically correct and do they mean the same? The sentences are mine.
The idea is that Tom (intentionally or unintentionally) created obstacles for me when I was trying to get what I wanted. It seems to me that in (d) Tom was getting in the way in order to get what I wanted. I think (b) has a similar meaning. Maybe it can have two meanings?
I like (a) the best.

Many thanks

 

[Tarheel]

a. Tom always got in the way of my getting what I wanted.

There's your sentence.

If this was a real-life scenario I'd say you considered Tom an enemy. That's because he repeatedly blocked you from getting what you wanted. It's quite possible that you were very upset with him.

 

[tedmc]

Or:
Tom always got in the way of me trying to get what I wanted.
"Get(s) in the way" is a set phrase.

 

[Tdol]

The idea is that Tom (intentionally or unintentionally) created obstacles for me when I was trying to get what I wanted. It seems to me that in (d) Tom was getting in the way in order to get what I wanted. I think (b) has a similar meaning. Maybe it can have two meanings?
I like (a) the best.

You'd probably want to make that clearer:

Tom always got in the way to help me get what I wanted.