I tend to associate 'hurl' with the intent to get rid of something . . . .
"Hurl" definitely carries that association in its slang meaning "to vomit," viz.:
The morning after his last debauch found him hurling into the toilet.
Uttered with emphatic stress, the word "hurl" is itself viscerally reminiscent of vomiting. Perhaps that's why I tend to find the verb unappealing.
If it was intended to be caught, I would use "He hurled the apple to me". For me, "towards" doesn't have a clear intention behind it. It could have been thrown with the intention of you catching it but it could have been thrown in your direction with the aim of hitting you. (emsr2d2, post #3)
The distinction emsr2d2 draws here between "to" and "towards" really stands out, I think, when "hurl" is used intransitively:
The apple hurled towards me.
The apple hurled at me.
?? The apple hurled to me.
"To" seems to want the intentionality of an actual agent, which an apple is not. "At" definitely calls forth the sense of malice that Skreg described, viz.:
Apples were hurling at me right and left, until I caught the little devil who was trying to pelt me with them from the other side of the orchard.
Interestingly, the other verbs that have come up (except
catapult) don't work in the intransitive construction:
*[strike]The apple threw towards me.[/strike]
*[strike]The apple tossed towards me[/strike][strike].[/strike]
*[strike]The apple hit towards me.[/strike]
*[strike]The apple flung towards me.[/strike]
The apple hurled towards me.
The apple catapulted towards me.
That's because
hurl and
catapult are ergative verbs. The rest of the verbs are not.
Corrigendum to posts #4 and #6: Despite my not liking the double object construction with
hurl and
catapult, there are linguists who have endorsed the dative alternation with both verbs. They are listed by Stanford professor Beth Levin (in
English Verb Classes and Alternations, 1993) as taking the dative alternation, along with other "verbs of throwing":
bash, bat, bunt, catapult, chuck, flick, fling, flip, hit, hurl, kick, lob, pass, pitch, punt, shoot, shove, slam, slap, sling, throw, tip, toss. Thus, it should apparently be considered correct to say both "He hurled me the apple" and "He catapulted me the apple" along with "He hurled the apple to me" and "He catapulted the apple to me."